Empowering Singles through Holistic Care

Through events, workshops, and conversations, we champion the holistic well being and inclusion of singles across the UK and beyond.

SAFE SPACES, SAFE PEOPLE

Welcome!

The Well, Where Singles’ Lives Matter is a pioneering initiative dedicated to affirming, celebrating and empowering single people as a vital part of church and community life.

Through our ACE approach, Advocacy, Community, and Education we create safe spaces, deliver life-enriching programmes, and challenge the stigma surrounding singleness.

Our work includes events such as Chill, Chat & Chocolate, Singleness Awareness Services, workshops, retreats, counselling support, listening spaces, and a bespoke referrals directory. This is all designed to bring hope, healing and restoration to singles in every walk of life.

Whether you’re single by choice, circumstance, or season, The Well exists to affirm your value, amplify your voice, and strengthen community connections in faith and life.

Our Mission

To advocate for equality, inclusivity, and justice for singles, creating safe spaces with safe people by delivering life-enriching programmes, and challenging stigma in church and community life.

Our Vision

A world where single people are fully affirmed, celebrated  and empowered, as integral to church, and community life.

Our Core Themes

Our values are built around these three core themes:

Advocacy

Challenging stigma, raising awareness, and ensuring singles are valued in church and community spaces

Community

Creating safe, supportive spaces where singles connect, share and grow, through events, retreats, and support networks

Education

Equipping churches, businesses, and communities with resources to better understand how to  engage with singles’ needs

Why this Matters

Why Single’s Lives Matter

Almost half of UK adults are single.
Yet many feel overlooked in church and community life.

By supporting The Well, you’ll be helping us to create spaces where singles are valued, celebrated and empowered.

By doing small acts like this helps to improve not only individual lives but also the health of society as a whole.

Featured Services/Activities

Chill, Chat & Hot Chocolate

Our signature gathering combines conversation, and community.

‘Chill, Chat’ times are therapeutic spaces to just be yourself. No judgement, just acceptance.

Just come, chill & chat in safe surroundings that are as comforting as having a cup of hot chocolate.

Events & Retreats

Times to connect with others, reflect & rest. Help to support those in social isolation, to promoting inclusion, and community building.

Check-in Support

Pastoral support and follow up service to those who are struggling, bereaved, or sick.

Being there when it matters and listening with care.

Singleness Awareness Services

Advocating for singles within local church settings raising the awareness on the complexities of singleness within their area.

Testimonials

The event brought to light societal issues circling singles around the world.

The real life examples of loneliness were very capturing, bringing awareness so we can be mindful and provide a helping hand to those who perhaps don’t have family, friends or the community.

It was also encouraging to hear how to embrace singlehood and the benefits it has.

I look forward to learning more as this has so far been uplifting and empowering.

RC, Visitor - Singleness Awareness Service

I enjoy the benefits of going to The Well with the others. I enjoy the company, the talks, the venues they arrange, the food, the laughs and we can relax and talk about ourselves and what is going on in our lives.

I find it so therapeutic and wonderful. I’m enjoying every minute of it.

DG - Chill, Chat & Chocolate gathering

It was great spending time with the ladies in that informal setting, the discussions revealed lived experience, thoughts and struggles and together we were able encourage support each other. I was reminded that it is ok to take time out for myself.

BP - Retreat, May 2025

Support Us

Be part of the change. Together, we can create spaces where singles are celebrated, not side-lined.

There are many ways to join in: attend our events, partner with us, or volunteer your skills.

Every contribution helps us reach more people and create more spaces for connection and support.

If you’re a church, organisation, or business interested in partnership or sponsorship, we’d love to hear from you.